It's been absolutely agessssss since I last posted on my blog!
So much has happened I don't know where to start.
I might as well start with my relationship status. As you all knew from my posts back in the summer, me and my boyfriend had been going through a rough patch. It seemed to get better for about a month and then unfortunately we just couldn't seem to hold it together. We decided to end it on our 3 year anniversary, but got back together soon after. I thought maybe that we would get stronger after the break up. It didn't happen. After that, we was constantly arguing and our relationship was very much on off.
It's now February and we've been apart for 3 weeks.
Although I loved him, I decided to end it not only because of the arguing, but because I have changed dramatically as a person since I published my last post. I began to clash with him; he's very much controlling whilst I'm very laid back. Our interests began to clash, too. I appreciate art and photography and have a very carefree attitude towards life, whereas he became very money orientated and designer labels were everything to him.
We still talk, but our conversations mostly consist of him asking if I can get back with him, and me replying, 'Not now, but you never know in the future'. I know it's a terrible answer to give but I just don't know how to respond to that.
If anyone of you have been through, or are going through, a similar thing then feel free to comment.
Relationships are hard, that's for sure. Do you know anyone who has been married for a long time? Sometimes those are the best people to get advice from. My parents have been married for 44 years!! I don't know how they did it, but somehow they made it work. One thing is for sure, if it is meant for you two to be together, nothing will prevent that from happening. If not..move on girl! You're still young!
ReplyDeletecheck out my hubpages....I am new to blogging as well.
http://stayingalivemoma.hubpages.com/_2qasbbw091npz/hub/The-Art-of-Living-Hand-to-Mouth